You could enable the custom title for the users and ask them to enter the true name. might need to edit the template to state that the field is for true names in lieu of custom title.
Then it would appear under the display name with out having to open the profile to look them up.
I think the custom title field allows duplicates but I have not tested it. So if you have two users called john doe they both will show as john doe.
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