Hello everyone,
Thanks for the responses. And thanks for listening to my rants.
One of my own took the time to point out that this is merely a case of some fat girl*** being jealous of my position. Which i already knew but its very encouraging to hear that others see it the same way -- or to be reminded of it.
Giz, i'm actually admin. Just by default. It's kind of a weird situation. (actually it was never intended that i even be mod -- if you can imagine)
*** i really mean no offense to any women; thin, thick and medium; you're all great.