Sorry, I may not be explaining myself correctly. I noticed how to remove "buddies" I have added but when you view your profile it shows "buddies" (Users that have added me) ... I cannot find anywhere that shows how to remove them. In my "buddie" list from where you described I see two people but when I view my profile, I have will over 20 "buddies" ... people who have added me. Some of my users do not want to display that they are "buddies" with some other users on the board and would like to remove those people even though they did not add them personally.

Also how do you "deny" someone from adding you to their "buddie" list or turn off your "buddie" list all together? I do not see any per user configurations based on this.