with this cloudflare thing I am trying out, all IPs show as being a cloudflare IP. HTTP_CF_CONNECTING_IP is a forwarded value that shows the correct IP.

because my site is on a shared virtual server, they can't/won't make global changes to the httpd.conf file as it will trash everyone elses stuff.
they did make some changes so that my logs are showing up correctly, etc, but right now every user on my site is showing up from the same IP

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