Thanks guys. I TOTALLY agree with having ethics as an admin and one must really consider if they are up to it before taking it on. There was this stepmother support board I used to be on where the admins were doing that(becoming the user and reading PMs and changing profile info) and well, I have strong feelings about that and thought it was awfully wrong of them to do, but it's their board, their rules. Oh well.
Thanks for the info.