If I have one more incident my hand will be forced and I will need to make a move to a vps. I just paid the host for a year up front in January so I am hoping to make this work a while longer. That is why I am checking here to make sure that that others are not having a similar problem and the solution is known - I hate walking away when there is still money on the table.
As an aside, in the past month I have been taken to the cleaners by two other hosts (for other sites) that I also paid a year up front. Just month to month for me from now on!