I just checked my email and found this...
Hello, ****!
We've noticed that you've not been active on ****.com for quite some time now, and we miss you!
Could we not tempt you back?
If you don't remember your password, you can request it here: http://****.com/forums/login.php?do=lostpw
We hope to see you soon
Kindest Regards
http://****.com
Now that's a good way to prompt someone to come back and keep the community strong, isn't it.