All text strings are contained in the Language Files; if your language files are chmodded 666 you can use the editor in the control panel. There is also a search tool in there which allows you to locate specific strings.

The birthday information for example is contained in the "cfrm.php" file:
BIRTHDAY_SUBJECT
BIRTHDAY_BODY

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