Update:
I contacted the company I have my web site through and they said I should put "localhost" in the email setting where I have "mail.retailreality.com". In the "SMTP Server (Windows)" spot. I did make the change and it worked.
My question is will the emails now go through the server of my ISP or will they go through the server my web site and forum are on?
What do you think? and thanks.
