The host says it is the one file being requested many times per second that is causing the problem.
I have gone from 8 pageviews per visitor with 6.72 to 40 with 7.1
I'd say these were clues.
I am using the search engine friendly urls - could that be a factor?
You tell us. You have your server logs. we do not. Are search engines hitting your site a lot more now, or no? What does an examination of your logs tell you?
I think your answers to my last two questions will also answer your questions. Only you (or your host) have these answers.