Couple things here. First and main one. Wwearing every other word to try and get your point across isn't helping your cause. The people that volunteer to help on the forums are less likely to assist.
Second, for matters of support that you deem urgent, you can open a support ticket.
Third and to answer your question:
You can change the font colors for the forum titles by going into the Category/Forum properties section of the Style Editor. Click the .forumtitle class and then click the Special Link Properties and you can add your font/color settings in the boxes that show up.
For the subject titles, you go into the Forum Summary Properties section, click on the .topicsubject and then click the Special Link Properties and do the same.
