ok my error logs where ok and I asked my web host if they stop scripts after a certain amount of time. here was there response
No we do not stop the execution of scripts after a cetain amount of time. The problem is due to the fact that the kernel needs to be recompiled. We will be working on that in the comming week. Thank you for your patience.
So I guess this is not a bug anda problem withmy server. Do now know what the kernel is or does, but apparantly it is screwing up.