Thanks. I don't think it would happen on our board either. Not that this is anything that would concern you guys and it is a tiny bit off topic, but there has been some politics between the company and the customers. One thing that happened recently was a permission change in the CP. I was the first user on the board and have been the admin for quite a long time. A global mod from the company was added. (I won't go into the suspected reasons). Anyway rather than making her an admin, which would be strange, the owner simply changed what were all 0s next to GMs to 1s, thereby in effect, making her an admin.
This does all tie together with the lack of trust, although I still do not think the owner would check the PMs.
Sorry, if this is way off topic. Thanks for all the help.
